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Getting Started | September 2022

From “Yes, but” to “Yes, if”

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Iris Chen
Founder of Untigering
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Iris Chen

Iris Chen is a peaceful parenting advocate, intersectional unschooler, and anti-oppression activist. After starting out as a hardcore tiger mother, she began to untiger when she saw all the negative effects of her authoritarian parenting. Now she’s on a mission to empower others to do the same by promoting peaceful parenting and educational freedom for children.

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