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Unschooling is a Great Choice for Children with Disabilities

My 14 year old son has epilepsy, and he has been unschooled much of his life. Epilepsy is a condition that affects around 3 million people nationwide and unfortunately this number is growing. Young people with disabilities often have a more difficult time in traditional school because some may need special education or an individualized education program. Unfortunately, not all schools are equipped with handling these needs.

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“Unschooling has been the perfect choice for my son with a disability and is a great option for other parents to look into if their children have disabilities as well.”

Unschooling is Flexible

Unfortunately my son has several seizures a day, which sometimes can alter our schedule, but utilizing unschooling and self-directed learning gives us the flexibility to learn at any time. If he were in school, he wouldn’t have the opportunity to rest when needed, and to pick back up on learning when he’s ready. This means he can take a mid-morning nap after having medication, and then do some engineering after lunch time. We also have several doctor’s visits that are usually during the middle of the day. There is no need for a school excuse when you can just pick up and go. It’s all up to your family how you structure your day, which is great for young people with disabilities.

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Unschooling Allows Learning at One’s Own Pace

When young people with disabilities are unschooled, they aren’t held to the same standards that exist in traditional school. They have the ability to explore their interests on their own timing. My son loves entomology and engineering, and when he’s able to, he spends all of his time exploring and learning all he can about these two topics. I don’t have to push him to be prepared for any tests, or to do any homework. He can learn what he wants, when he wants to, and that is perfectly fine and highly encouraged in our home.

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Common doubts and Questions

Unschooling nurtures real-world learning through curiosity, not rigid timelines. It’s legal, affordable, doesn’t require a teaching degree, and still offers social events like prom and community engagement.

Unschooling Allows Young People with Disabilities to Find their Passions

A few weeks ago my son had a neuropsych evaluation offered by his doctor, and she was consistently amazed at how much he knew about the things that he loved. She even said she wished many other parents looked into self-directed learning for their young people with disabilities because it would help to remove some of the pain points they face when their young people are in traditional school.

Every day in my son’s world, it’s all about what he’s interested in and passionate about, and how we are managing his disability. There is no need to focus on the minutia like in traditional school settings. This is the best way to prepare him for his future.

When raising young people with disabilities there is so much to manage, from health to education. Unschooling takes the guesswork out of the educational aspect of their lives and allows them to enjoy learning. Every young person living with a disability is special and individual, and we have to nurture their uniqueness.

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