A values-driven look at how teens can choose a next step that truly fits who they are.
With Jen Vallieres and Jared Epler
In this conversation, the founders of Forget the Rankings and Pathway Forward talk about helping teens choose a next step that feels aligned with who they are—whether that’s a four-year college, a two-year program, or a technical path. We focus on values, clarity, creativity, and the emotional side of decision-making. You’ll also hear grounded advice on using summers, internships, and short-term experiences to explore interests and build confidence about what comes next.
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Executive Director at Mosaic
A communications and storytelling leader, Bonnie works at the intersection of philanthropy, collaboration and action. She supports families, educators and partners as they explore non-traditional learning with clarity and confidence. With a background in strategy, media and movement-building, she brings a values-first approach rooted in kindness, truth, humor and integrity.
Jared Epler is a K-12 certified school counselor, licensed professional counselor, and advocate for transformative change in college access and mental health support. As co-founder of Forget the Rankings: The Values-Driven College Search, he is revolutionizing how students approach college selection by increasing access & prioritizing well-being over prestige. With over 15 years of experience spanning K-12 education, higher education, and mental health counseling, Jared currently serves as Career & College Access Counselor at Lower Merion High School. He has dedicated his life to college access for those historically excluded, and his career journey includes pioneering roles at Summer Search, founding the college counseling program at Cristo Rey Philadelphia High School, and directing TRIO College Access Programs at the Philadelphia Education Fund. An adjunct faculty member at the University of Pennsylvania’s Graduate School of Education, Jared holds an M.S.Ed. from Penn and is pursuing his doctorate in Educational Leadership at Saint Joseph’s University. Through his work with national organizations and frequent conference presentations, he advocates for a holistic, student-centered approach to college and career counseling that emphasizes mental health and personal values for all students.
Certified Educator & Licensed Professional Counselor
With a background in cultural anthropology and K-12 education, Jen brings a unique lens to Forget the Rankings. Recognizing the profound impact that rankings-driven college admissions has on student mental health, she co-launched this movement to empower students to choose schools based on personal values and genuine fit rather than prestige. For over 15 years, she has been a proud conduit of growth to individuals at all stages of life, from early childhood through graduate school. With multiple certifications in school counseling, elementary education, and English language learner development, she has developed curricula for schools and nonprofits, taught 4th grade, worked with special education students, and provided college and career counseling. As a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Jen grounds her therapeutic counseling work in narrative theory, believing that individual growth creates ripples throughout the community. Through her diverse roles as educator, counselor, and advocate, she continues to champion a future where students, especially those who have been marginalized, can discover their authentic path and create meaningful change in the world.
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